Sunday, March 16, 2014

Lessons learned....



I have learned so many life lessons lately from various experiences...here are just a few.
  • Go to the funeral or viewing.  It doesn't matter if you knew the person who died, if you love their family just go.  It means so much.
  • Exercise...it does a mind good.  I have  completely different day when I exercise than when I don't, even my kids notice.
  • Go outside, dig in the dirt, play with kids, get that natural vitamin D.  It makes such a difference in my mentality when I spend time outside daily.
  • When someone's name pops into your head randomly, call them or go see them or write them a note.  It's not a coincidence you thought of them.
  • Snuggle with  kids in the morning, even if you think you don't have the time, do it.  It can change your whole morning.
  • Play freeze tag in the front yard when your 6 year old asks (even if the neighbors stare), you will have a blast and she will talk about it for days after...
  • Preserve the relationship at all costs, relationships are forever, schoolwork and scouts are temporary
  • Make sure your kids know you are on their team, that you are their #1 ally.
  • Raise the praise, minimize the criticize.  I have to learn this one over and over again.  I think I so much want for my kids to be their best selves that I focus on the things that they aren't doing, when in reality they are absolutely fantastic kids and I need to let them know I believe that about them.

5 comments:

Kathleen said...

What a great list. I agree. I love that last quote "raise the praise, minimize the criticize." I definitely need to work on that one.
As much as I lament the wrinkles on my face, I do cherish the wisdom that comes with age.
Thanks for sharing your list, Cheryl. Have a great week.

Tiffany said...

You are sooo wise! I'm so excited to spend some time with you this next weekend.

Erin said...

Thank you so much for this list:)

Sarah said...

You are such a good mama!

Unknown said...

This is such a great list! I loved every single one. Thank you so much for sharing!